Is having a common warm-up the same thing as talking as ‘we’ all the time? Assuming we have the same needs same kind of body same kind of wishes at the same time? What kind of value is there in the ability to say that one can overcome ones own convictions and needs enough to share something with a group of other people? And is there another way? Something which is allowing the individual to be just that but at the same time sharing more then time and place with the the group?